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Christian A. Stewart-Ferrer
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Autism / Asperger's Syndrome, stress at being in the world - and why separation anxiety is natural.
[DANSKE UNDERTEKSTER -- ENGLISH SUBTITLES]
Psykologen Christian A. Stewart-Ferrer beskriver ganske kort essensen i den autistiske måde at være i og opleve verden på, og hvorfor dette medfører en næsten konstant stress-tilstand.
Han forklarer også, hvorfor dette giver en meget stor risiko for separationsangst [samt en del andre angsttilstande] - og hvorfor dette ikke skyldes en fejl i mor-barn-relationen, men netop langvarig overbelastning og manglende forståelse og støtte fra omgivelserne.
Christian er specialist og supervisor i klinisk børne- og ungdomspsykologi samt specialist og supervisor i psykoterapi. Han er desuden ekstern underviser ved Institut for Psykologi på Syddansk Universitet, og tidl. specialist-leverandør til VISO (Socialstyrelsen).
Han arbejder i privat praksis ved "Tidens Psykologer" i Odense - med terapi, rådgivning, udredning og supervision (også via video og tlf.) - og er en meget benyttet oplægsholder og underviser ved konferencer i Danmark og Sverige, især inden for områderne:
● autisme /Aspergers Syndrom, GUU/GUA (MCDD) og ADHD/ADD;
● angsttilstande (inkl. OCD, skolefobi/skolevægring og PDA [Pathological Demand Avoidance]);
● stress, traumer (såvel akutte traumer som udviklingstraumer [belastning i barneårene, svigt, mobning, dysfunktionelle parforhold m.m.])
● borderlinestrukturer og -tilstande
● psykopati
● m.m.
autismepsykologen.dk/
www.tidenspsykologer.dk/
Christian går meget mere i dybden om autisme her: ua-cam.com/video/qpitsA-0pBQ/v-deo.html
Psykologen Christian A. Stewart-Ferrer beskriver ganske kort essensen i den autistiske måde at være i og opleve verden på, og hvorfor dette medfører en næsten konstant stress-tilstand.
Han forklarer også, hvorfor dette giver en meget stor risiko for separationsangst [samt en del andre angsttilstande] - og hvorfor dette ikke skyldes en fejl i mor-barn-relationen, men netop langvarig overbelastning og manglende forståelse og støtte fra omgivelserne.
Christian er specialist og supervisor i klinisk børne- og ungdomspsykologi samt specialist og supervisor i psykoterapi. Han er desuden ekstern underviser ved Institut for Psykologi på Syddansk Universitet, og tidl. specialist-leverandør til VISO (Socialstyrelsen).
Han arbejder i privat praksis ved "Tidens Psykologer" i Odense - med terapi, rådgivning, udredning og supervision (også via video og tlf.) - og er en meget benyttet oplægsholder og underviser ved konferencer i Danmark og Sverige, især inden for områderne:
● autisme /Aspergers Syndrom, GUU/GUA (MCDD) og ADHD/ADD;
● angsttilstande (inkl. OCD, skolefobi/skolevægring og PDA [Pathological Demand Avoidance]);
● stress, traumer (såvel akutte traumer som udviklingstraumer [belastning i barneårene, svigt, mobning, dysfunktionelle parforhold m.m.])
● borderlinestrukturer og -tilstande
● psykopati
● m.m.
autismepsykologen.dk/
www.tidenspsykologer.dk/
Christian går meget mere i dybden om autisme her: ua-cam.com/video/qpitsA-0pBQ/v-deo.html
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Відео
Aiki, aikido og konfliktforebyggelse (Aikido i Odense)
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En kort, introducerende appetitvækker omkring oplæg og kurser om AIKI, kommunikation og konflikthåndtering. Psykologen og Aikido-instruktøren Christian A. Stewart-Ferrer har gennem mange år dels undervist i Aikido, dels brugt metoderne til at lære tilhørere og kursister, hvordan man finder og bevarer grounding, forebygger og mindsker konflikter, og får samspil med andre til at fungere mere harm...
PART 2/2: Christian A Stewart-Ferrer on Asperger's/Autism
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(Part 1/2: ua-cam.com/video/qpitsA-0pBQ/v-deo.html ) This is the second part of Christian's presentation of a professional insider's perspective on Asperger's Syndrome / Autism. Christian is a psychologist in private practice in Odense, Denmark - with "Tidens Psykologer". He is himself diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. Christian does counseling, therapy, assessments, and supervision, both nat...
Explaining Asperger's/Autism - Christian A. Stewart-Ferrer (PART 1/2)
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(PART 2 /2: ua-cam.com/video/djFUUybF95Y/v-deo.html ) Christian Stewart-Ferrer is a clinical psychologist in private practice ("Tidens Psykologer") in Odense, Denmark - and an adjunct clinical instructor at the University of Southern Denmark. He has worked extensively with people with Autism Spectrum Conditions for a number of years, and is himself diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. Christian ...
Ving Tsun - The Legacy of Ip Man (DA. UNDERTEKSTER - ENG. SUBTITLES)
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David Peterson's brief but formidable mini-documentary on Ip Man and Ving Tsun (Wing Chun) - with subtitles. (Actually a well-edited excerpt from a half-hour piece accompanying the 'Ip Man' DVD published in Australia.) This version has Danish and English subtitles, respectively.
This is the only correct video for Autism out there.
Det lige præcis det man gør som mor beskytter 🙏 andre forstår det bare ikke
Christian, how did Aspergers affect your training in Aikido?
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The Comforter has Asperger's
Left handed underhanded broken sinister wicked or having no conscious And no we do not be gay. Anyone who does not repent for their lasciviousness will be cast out into outer darkness
Sweet Lord! Said the late-diagnosed Aspie. 🙏
Amazing information
11:30
Thank you!
The subtitles disappeared suddenly early on. I have difficulties following without them. Wondering if it's the video or my phone there is something wrong with
I totally get this guy. I think I cause women to hate me because I can see contradictions in one's words and actions. I teach math and am more comfortable with kids than adults. But men are cool with me
4:23 (Just ignore this lol, this is just me reminding myself where I am in the video)
Fabulous presentation with dry wit. We just found this presentation. Our son is finishing his masters in cyber security with a 4.0 average. He finally found his strength/passion. The world needs this good and bright young man with his capabilities. Now the anxiety has returned slightly-interviewing for jobs and leaving the world of academia to the work force. Any suggestions of books or articles to help this Aspie make this big life change. Thank you for your intellect and research on this subject. Beautifully presented.
I’ve got aspergers and it turns out that every first child on my mom’s side of the family has some form of autism and/or aspergers. My therory is that it comes from the Dutch genes from my grandfather’s side of the family.
Thankyou. - for Your Copious Time dedicated toward these awkward / inter grueling topics You’ve covered , most methodology & thoroughly !! Even though I’ve been studying quantum physics & like Einstein believe in an inter-connecting system via Blackholes in space&Time . Until proven the thesis may turn over in our Life time where the Glandular strikes the hour opening for a short window of human time the straight then twisting off vortex connection with another Galaxy passing through around our Solar’s outer orbit ⚙️⚙️⚙️⚙️⚙️☀️💫
Ohhhh...this is such a great explanation of much of my autistic experience that I want to send it to all my NT friends who struggle to understand. But...of course...they don't possess the attention span to actually get through it ;) Also: have you noticed how you often sniff directly after making an amusing or particularly pointed point? I've been doing it all my life, and my wife and daughter only remarked on it recently.
Very enlightening lecture there. Many don’t know if they haven’t had an Apocalypse of the Parousia that they WONT see the Erkamiah !!
Thank you for this enlightening information!
"Studio Ghibli is autistic girl Mecca" is hilariously accurate
Tak, bare tak ❤️ fra en mor
92nd percentile ADHD Aspe… checking in.. unemployed prison record and wanted by all the ladies… (but I don’t understand emotions properly and fall in love easily and then take everything my partner says to heart).. which leads to more isolation as I guess I’m totally co dependent in a relationship… Thanks for all the insight… this mask thing over the past two years has driven me into a new level of agoraphobic chaos… / psychosis?.. I know I’m smart enough … but I just can’t be a part of society anymore…
Just stay away from high neuroticism people and you'll be fine trust me
To be more precise, avoid negative neuroticism.. But surround yourself with people that are by default high in positive, good energy emotional release.
This was a wonderful and very humorous portrayal of the ASD and NT views of the world.
*When you're on the spectrum trying to watch a video about being on the spectrum but every 5 seconds you lose focus and forget what's happening*
8:10 - I was aware of that, though it's still really interesting. A communication experiment/study between neurotypical's (Nt's) and those on the Spectrum (S) where they did a sort of Chinese whispers thing. The message to be conveyed returned correct in the all Nt group and in the S group, but when there was a mixture of the two groups, miscommunication was clear and present! 15:20 - As a kid/teenager I'd often annoy my mother with repetitive leg movements, some 25-30yrs later we now both know what or why I was doing what I was doing! Looking back at your life, post-diagnosis, there's a lot of 'Oh yeah, that makes sense' or is at least somewhat explained. My 4th & 5thyr primary school teacher reported he's highly intelligent, but he's always day-dreaming, staring out the window, though seemingly not paying attention could still answer, and wouldn't willingly interact unless it was a subject of interest; that started a trend. Academically gifted, socially lacking! 16:20 - I think our social thinking and behaviour explains why many of us don't gravitate towards religion. -we believe- I know, give me science and fact any day! > 48:40 Autist's are funny. I know I've got a wicked* sense of humour, * in both senses of the word! I'm not crazy*, I'm just operating at a level beyond your (their) comprehension! I am.. Insane with a Capital 5... but why complicate things for them!! >XD 42:40 - Yes! I'm HFA, interacting is possible but it is tiring, moreso with Nt's, brain's working 2 or 3x faster to keep up, analyzing gestures, tones, body language words and contexts and translate it NT - S - NT 53:01 - Funny, I find my Eyes logo on my T-shirt which says 'No Fear'. Bunch of people running down the road, one guy says what's going on? A lion's escaped from the zoo!! Which way did it go? You don't think we're chaFsing it!! 1:00:00 - I do have emotions, but much like my self, they don't much of the light. I've always valued logic, it's a contributing factor to, as well as a result of, reasoned thought, scientific in its nature, it is what it is regardless of emotions, feelings; logic is the same for all, NT or AS. Truth is a location, logic is a map, if the logic is sound and based on truth all conclusions should be true. I have at times been thought of as cold-hearted or uncaring when in fact I was just being logical; not on Spock's level; maybe a Proto-Vulcan! >XD 1:00:24 - Joke was under appreciated! So I enjoy Horror films so much cause they're my people! 1:01:44 - Ha!! Speak of the pointy-eared Devil This was a really interesting video!
I can see autism and as a baseline for communication but not vice versa. How does autism get defined from normal communication?
My question is: What if your children are neurotypical? I don't know if I'm on the spectrum, but (for many reasons that I won't go into here) I know that I am not neurotypical. I recently had a daughter, who is 8 months old at the time of writing this, and I worry about how I will raise her to properly function within neurotypical society when I myself have failed at that venture. Is it just something normal people understand by their nature? Or have I set her up for failure? Further, I learned everything I know about socializing from observing my own mother and from reading fiction. Well, I'm decent at seeming competent in social interactions on the surface, but once I've become known to others the facade begins to fade as they realize all the little details I haven't quite polished, so it won't be that beneficial to her to observe me. From the lips of my former classmates, I am forever known as "that weird girl," although they were polite enough to never let me know (deceptive enough, in my own opinion, although I realize they believed themselves to be polite in not disclosing to me that they were apprehensive of me) and I was none the wiser until I heard it from someone else that I was referred to that way. I don't want her saddled with that burden. It would be much easier if she was also different and I could teach her all I've learned about functioning as if I were normal, and tell her where she might improve where I have failed. Better yet, I might be able to teach her to embrace herself for who she is even if others perceive her way of viewing the world to be a bit odd.
Neurodivergent ought to be applied unto the relationship betwixt neuromajority and neurominority. Comparatively, neurotypical ought to be applied unto relationships involving only neuromajority.
Very good he covers it all Thankyou
I could not be bothered with all that social crap
Evolution us made ASPERGOID, that is us ... no need for Humanoids LOL .. We can better relate with OK Google and Siri as our friends LOL.
Such an insightful lecture - thank you so much the information explained has been very useful in understanding the human brain whether autistic or not. Just excellent
Postal workers…brilliant. Schedule, route, familiar, solo.
The most difficult part of trying to be comfortable in an autistic world (being a neuro-typical) is the uncomfortable (for me) silence. I feel a need to fill silence with small talk. My Aspie is perfectly happy with silence.
Boo hoo.
@@reginawarburton3255 ? Elaborate
@@wldncrzy1971 you speak of your discomfort of being NT in an autistic world as you having to fill silence. You have no consideration for the actual problems and downright suffering the ND community goes through. Stop being so selfish.
I wish that other people i might send this to would find the time to watch it, and understand it. It’s a guide to understanding me
Tithe is "Club Membership Dues" (Interesting perspective)
John Nash was not necessarily autistic, the movie just did a really bad job of portraying him accurately
This is very interesting. Thank you.
mechas are robots
Mecca.
Amazing, so important to hear and delivered soo well. Humour is on point 👌 thank you
Thank u for not running away screaming
My= nt. Stupid phone
Stupid phone changes my words. Guys watch me swim but no one asks me to coffee my little sister is my and helps me know how to not act weird and needy.
It is nice to understand why I didn't have many friends eventho ima very nice person. I wish I knew where to meet more people like myself. Most people are very boring and most men y age are alreadyhooked up. I'm a senior athlete.swimming. lol never would have guessed. Would you. Many men watch me swing it nobody asks me to coffee. Kinda discouraging
This has been so helpful to me in checking how well, or maybe not so well, at how I cope socially. Also, I refuse to go on feeling so weird around people I don’t know well. 🤪
After your last brilliant speech i Greve, DK - I had an anxiety attack on my way home, which proves. your speech hit home! However - I was diagnosed.
This was anazing! I wish I could share this with my loved ones who do not speak english.
I have trouble understanding how people feel but I'm not terrible at it either. It takes conscious effort though. I'm sure I could train myself to do it automatically.
What an arrogant and conceited person you are! Do you realise and care at all how much pain you are causing people just by your inability to feel and react like a normal person? As it happens my adopted son is autistic, arrogant and fullbof himself just like you. What is thebreason normal people should want to have any relationships with people like you? I do not see any
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Better late than never...I guess, as in I'm not crazy after all! Just ignorant. Explains why husband of 60 yrs (YES, 60!) was/is so difficult to communicate with; not nuanced (I've been editing his scientific writings since grad school); lousy at small talk, even with me, bc sees no value in it; compelled to think thru the teeniest of choices wc often leads to painful, non-decision results; accesses his feelings with great difficulty, at which point his circular logic has become impenetrable; subtle humor that few get bc they require a leap or two; doesn't grasp concepts like "consideration for others" and "kindness", and on and on it has gone! The recent massive advances in learning about our brains & behavior over past 10-15 yrs, I've come to realize that he's damned lucky to have married me! He has lived his life pretty much on his terms while, sadly for me, I've paid a tremendous psnl & professional price overall; e.g., serious cancer, 15 yrs (and counting) myalgic encephalomyelitis, heart failure, OH mitral valve surgery, suicidal ideation/depression, living on eggshells, grad educ cut short 3 yrs in, always putting him first and making excuses for his behavior (as much my fault as his), etc. He's hasn't been seriously ill once.My only expectations going in were mutual love and trust, and equity--with life's normal pain and and trials. Had U known in the early '60s what U know and distributed it to anyone who wants to listen, I wd have decided quite quickly to PASS (psych & med educ). Alas! Turns out he was so lucky to snag me, but not the other way 'round for me. JBPeterson's personality test ("Understand Myself") placed me in 80th to 90th percentiles globally of 4 of 10 psychometric domain subsidiaries.